Monday, September 15, 2008
Halloween:From Stash to Treasure
People who know us, know. They know that Halloween is a big deal in our house. It always has been. My husband and I approach this ghostly holiday with as much, (if not more) vigor and delight as Christmas.
Some years the preparations begin as early as April to be ready for the big night. We have hosted parties under circus tents in our backyard, built cemeteries, creatures of the animatronic species: (an·i·ma·tron·ic Pronunciation: \ˌa-nə-mə-ˈträ-nik\ Function: adjective
Etymology: short for audio-animatronic -of, relating to, or being a puppet or similar figure that is animated by means of electromechanical devices ) and walk- through frights. Our costumes usually take more than 20 hours to complete. We don't subscribe to the store bought Halloween here, no Sir. Homemade or not at all is the house Halloween policy. We make costumes for countless other people and work in the winter on full facial appliances made with liquid latex, plaster and wax to alter our appearances come October. Stay tuned for some recaps from Hallows past around this year's night of October 31st.
Ahh, the pressure to out do our selves! When we found out we were going to have a baby, we both started thinking about what type of a costume would be best. I wanted to wait until we at least knew if it was a girl or a boy. My husband wanted to wait to meet the baby, to let it's personality guide him on the costume choice. A big deal indeed.
As we approach this first Halloween, we are a bit divided, but have conceded to each other. Or my husband has conceded to me, rather. (Smart idea). My costume idea has (reluctantly by one on the board of Halloween) been voted in as the winner, due to comfort, ease of construction and time constraints. (We are still on the fire wood assignment of course)
His costume idea is great and would have been a treat, but also would have required about 20 more hours to complete, without any assurance that it would actually work on an 11 month old baby. Along with a long recipe list of craft materials and mold making ingredients that is just too long to assemble in time. I know I will win him over, even though he feels a little slighted.
Halloween is a bit like his version of childbirth I think. He wanted to go through this, and do the work and try hard, you know, to bring Ava into Halloween, like I brought her into the world. Cosmic, yes. Crazy. I know.
In the ever pressing task of coming up with a first Halloween costume for Ava, I turned to my fabric stash for inspiration. Of course, the costume has to fit into certain logistical guidelines: it has to be comfortable, reasonable and functional. Read: warm. We are in Maine you know.
I love it when a castoff scrap calls you from the stash and whispers to you the real purpose it should fulfill. These little polka dot flannel and red fleece scraps whispered their purposes as booties for Old Hallows Eve. I certainly wish I could now share the rest of the (yes, warm, soft and comfortable) costume I toiled into the night completing, but alas, we must save something for the big reveal on the big night.
So here is a little preview. I am off to work on knitting. Oh yeah, and 2 more costumes, for us "adults".
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Wild Life Sighting
Okay, those who have visited likely have left with a feeling of sadness, and even a touch of depression...But Ava loves animals so we packed her up and headed to the Maine Wildlife Park for a visit. The fisher was the most popular with her, and her dad and I enjoyed just being outside in the early fall air. Together.
The groundhogs were a delight (especially since these 2 were not living under our porch!) and the turtles basked in the autumn sun...
We got a bit of exercise, a bit of fresh air and Ava enjoyed a stroller picnic outside. Who wouldn't love to eat Cheerios and cheddar cheese, wearing only one sock, with your feet up?!? Ahh, childhood...
We drove home with a sleeper in the backseat, and Chris made baby and parent sized turkey burgers on the grill for dinner-how cute!
Monday, September 8, 2008
The Hornet Takes Flight
My husband has been working all summer on a custom bicycle for our neighbor's daughter. Well, "working" and "all" may not be the right words... "Tinkering" and "as often as he can" are more in line with reality.
But finally, finally, as the start of the school year loomed, the bike came to be-the last bend of metal welded and buffed, sanded and ground, painted and clear coated. From scratch. From metal delivered to our house on a semi truck in the beginning of the summer. How my husband strained his brain to figure out how to get an 18 wheeler on our little street. He just had to have this metal tubing delivered.
I think our neighbor's daughter had either given up, or gotten over the idea, by the time the bike was finished. I don't think she believed she would ever really get to ride the finished bike. Waiting all summer when you are 8 years old, might as well be waiting until you are 25. I mean really. Where is my husband's sense of time?!?
The Hornet takes flight!
And So It Begins...
You see, my father's house is the home of the southern branch of the family Wood Headquarters, (WHQ) this is just how it has always been. For years. No one tries to suggest that we do it elsewhere. Of course if you want to drive 4 hours northeast, you will find my Grandfather's Northern wood lot headquarters, and this it the true original home of the wood lot. Dad's pales a little in comparison to the front end loaders, Bobcats, skidders and mountainous piles of wood at Grandpa's, but in his defense there is a wood business run from that branch of the wood lot. Dad's is a smaller family operation, supplying just the wood for his house and a few select friends. This year, much to my father's sweet delight, my husband, daughter and I will be joining the ranks in the wood lot, as we will be heating with wood as well.
What have we started!?! For the last 9 years, my husband and I have blissfully, easily and ignorantly heated our house with oil alone. Well, we didn't have a wood stove you see. Me? Not have a wood stove in my house-in this family? Sacrilege. No one has really given us a hard time about it, we worked a lot, didn't have time for all that wood business. But now, I am home with Ava and there is no real reason that we can't make time for the wood business now, and with the cost of oil these days... So we lost the fight. Or have we just begun?
Long time friends of my father's offered us their wood stove recently. A gift- they were upgrading to a pellet stove and didn't need the wood stove anymore. It seems they no longer wanted to fuss with all that wood business either.
Or had my father intervened? We all know he played a part in the scheme to get the wood stove to be handed down, but to what extent, no one will really admit to. I did receive a call from my father's friend and his wife. They asked if we really did want the wood stove-they weren't sure if my dad was up to something. Well, as I have mentioned before, when it comes to fire wood, my father is always up to something.
And so it begins. With great passion, my father was in our basement, with my husband's brother, (who helpfully got the thing down the basement stairs) discussing the exciting chimney liner options and high temperature flues, and even instructed me to go outside and measure the shadow of the chimney on the ground so he could mathematically- somehow, magically perhaps, estimate the height of the chimney from outside the house.
There was fire in his eyes. I know that fire. The fire of fire wood. It is my father's "pressciouss". With one of my grandfathers recently retiring from the wood lot due to health issues, my father was in need of a wood lot laborer, and fast. Winter is only weeks away. He isn't ready yet-there is no stacked wood outside, only long logs, piled high, awaiting the "crew" (which apparently now consists of my dad, and alternately, my husband and I. One of us splitting wood, one of us on baby duty) to cut, split, move and stack the endless stream of firewood that arrives at the wood lot throughout the year. And so the team has been assembled. Just in time for winter.
Sinister? Calculated? Perhaps. But really, Dad is quite smart. Our free labor for free firewood. A deal we can't pass up. So we have been trying to squeeze every last hour of daylight out of the days, splitting Dad's wood in exchange for "all the wood you can burn" for our house.
"I'll go." has become the catch phrase in our house. Go- to the wood lot of course, when Dad calls. One of us puts the baby to bed, and one goes to split wood after work, until it gets dark at least. At least we can look forward to nightfall to save us from our toil. Until Dad rigs up the shop lights with an extension cord. Winter is coming. It is getting dark earlier now. I think of something my Grandfather, now 87, my own father's father, says to us when we complain: " It's good experience."
Being outside with your father, watching the summer turn to autumn to winter-the warm hum of the wood splitter, the fresh air, the exercise, it is good experience.
And yes, I am aware that you can buy firewood already split. Delivered that way even. But don't even suggest that to my father. "Free is better" he will tell you. Now, I think he is right. But I do reserve the right to change my mind about that after spending the upcoming countless hours at the wood lot...
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Labor Day Weekend
Isn't this weekend supposed to be about not laboring?!? With the impending heating season upon us, we spent Sunday splitting wood. Lots and lots of wood. But not nearly enough. There is something unjust about splitting wood in the 80 degree heat, in the beating sun, sweating and swatting away bugs. It is hard to force yourself to remember that in 4 short weeks, we will need the wood for heat here. Our neighbor, again came to our rescue with his hydraulic truck so we could load the split wood right into the truck for transport to our house.
We spent Monday hiking Morse Mountain to Sewall Beach, the same route we took on Mother's Day, at the beginning of the summer. Now we close out summer with one last trip to this special place. This time it was hot and buggy-poor little Ava (along with the rest of us) succumbed to a few mosquito bites, but the swimming in the icy cold water and the huge (for Maine!) waves made it worthwhile. Our neighbors invited us along on their "last day of summer" picnic, their daughters are starting the new school year tomorrow. Ava was delighted to have her pals with her, and we think she understands that this neighboring family is part of our tribe now. She sees them quite often, but never fails to be totally enamored to see them. She looks at me as if to say, "Can you believe it?!? They are here again! What fun!"
We had a picnic, during which Ava didn't want to eat, the ocean was calling her. Our neighbor and their oldest daughter went way out in the depths and enjoyed the waves, while his wife, their younger daughter, Ava and I frolicked in the shallows on the shore. My husband ate his lunch, "being attacked by biting insects" while we enjoyed the last, succulent day of Maine summer.
The hike back out to the car seemed long and the mosquitoes were "thick as molasses". We were all salty and tired, what a day, what a great close to summer.
Finally!
After 5 months of trying and trying, only to be thwarted by ribbing, over and over again, I finally learned to knit! I have been completely determined to make Ava a sweater for her first birthday, which is oh, in 2 months... I started early enough, or so I thought, I thought surely I could whip up my first knit in 7 months time. Surely. So after some initial instruction from my kind neighbor, who is oh so patient with me, I began THE sweater.
Then I messed up the ribbing and had to rip out the first 6 rows and start again. About 17 times. I spent an entire 3 hour car ride this summer working on that sweater, only to have to rip it all out upon arrival, when a fatal flaw was realized. (Yes, I was the passenger, not the driver on that trip!)
Though I stopped counting, I believe I now have about 16 hours in a sweater that still does not exist. Everyone said to start with something easy, a scarf-how about booties? Suggestions, pleadings poured in as I confided in person after person about my frustration with learning to knit. My mother said, " you have to knit way down on the needles, you are knitting too tight", my neighbor observed, "you are working too close to the ends of the needles, move down" , my old friend gathered that I was doing something wrong with the ribbing stitches, but just what, no one could tell.
In my true fashion, I furiously pushed on, trying the same thing over and over and always really believing that this time, I would get it, this time, I would start the sweater. I could envision it finished, the Tiffany's blue wool would be so cute on Ava with her blue eyes. I could smell the yarn, all finished into a tiny little cardigan-that is how one is supposed to get focused on meeting a goal, right? Envision all of the details of what it will be like when you accomplish it... Yeah right.
My husband finally intervened. He couldn't take it anymore. He walked across the street and asked our neighbor what his wife was doing. "Meagan needs help knitting. Now." Several minutes later, my neighbor's wife appeared fully equipped with her knitting bag. Ahh, I call that divine intervention! She watched me knit, and in seconds, revealed the months long mistake I had been making. Repeatedly making. I needed to pull my yarn to the front of the needles prior to making a purl stitch. That was it. Who knew!?!
So I promised to practice, and not start the sweater again, until I had really mastered ribbing. But alas, I lied. I practiced ribbing for oh, about 6 rows and then, like an addict, ripped open the box hiding the Tiffany's blue sweater yarn and proceeded to stay up until 3 a.m. making the sweater. In the morning my neighbor came by to inquire about how my knitting was going. I had to reveal that I hadn't quite practiced as long as I was instructed, but that I had started the sweater. Again. " But look!" I exclaimed, as I showed her my progress, "I think it will really work this time, really!"
And I really, really believe that this time, it will.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Swiftly Go the Years...
How is it that time can pass so quickly? Since I have become a mother, it seems as though time has accelerated. Didn't I just have this baby? This tiny little feeding and sleeping machine, snuggled against me, unable to move. Unable to laugh yet, and unable to smile even.
Yes, this baby- the one with 5 teeth, the one crawling almost as fast as I can catch her, after the cats, squealing with delight at her own mobility.
This one, who now has an attitude, preferences, opinions. This one with a sense of humor and a distinct personality...
I guess when I look at the calendar it was really almost 10 months ago. But it feels like it has gone too fast. Maybe I didn't soak it up enough in those early weeks, maybe I was too worried if we were doing our best.
Maybe I did relish in the newness of this little person and I just don't remember. I think I was so enchanted that I saved those early baby days in a safe little place inside me, tucked away to bring out much later, to savor when the years have swiftly passed.
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